discover how to do love, better

Enter the Holy Eros Community. 

The Holy Eros Community is a collective of lovers and seekers dedicated to gaining the skills – not swipes – to build a dream relationship. 

Even though being in a satisfying relationship is one of the key indicators of happiness in life, few of us are taught the skills we need to create and deepen intimacy. Whether single or partnered, join others in a community where we deepen our skills around love monthly.

Get off the dating apps. 

Lean into a community of support &  

Find Holy Eros instead.

Holy Eros is an online community (with some IRL perks) where you can build your skills in relating.

Whether you’re single, partnered, or somewhere in between, you will learn something new and meet people committed to the same. 

Our members gather twice monthly online for workshops, rituals, creative projects, and “ask me anything” sessions with leaders, coaches, therapists, and experts in the field along with regular in-person events in Vancouver to put into practice all we’re learning.

 

Who is the Holy Eros Community for?

No matter if you’ve been devastated by love, confused by it, or ignored by it completely – you are not unloveable. You simply haven’t had the map to explore the world of love you desire to live in.  Our community is inclusive for all walks + ways of love: whether you’re partnered/single, monogamous/open, het/queer, cis/non-binary, or still figuring it out – there’s a place for you and your beating heart.

 
 

FOR SINGLES

desiring love and intimacy

  • Learn new skills to attract and connect with aligned partners.

  • Find a community of like-minded people who are looking for love in the right places.   

  • Learn to transform old behaviours and patterns that don’t serve you.

FOR COUPLES

seeking to strengthen their bonds

  • Gain skills to heal from past wounds.

  • Learn to ask for what you want and honor your partner’s desires.

  • Learn how to use conflict as a tool to grow intimacy.

  • Get support from a community, and see that you’re not alone.

FOR ANYONE LOOKING

to heal from heartbreak & believe in love again.

  • Learn to let go of resentment and blame.

  • Learn how to expand your heart and stay open to love, harnessing the wisdom from past experiences

  • Find resonance in a community of people who believe in the power of love, and are doing the work to bring it into their lives.

WHAT’S INCLUDED:

TRY THE HOLY EROS COMMUNITY FOR YOUR FREE MONTH & EXPERIENCE

Twice monthly online workshops, discussions & Q+A’s with Holy Eros + Guest Teachers on love, intimacy & relationships

• Free access to monthly meet-ups or gatherings (Vancouver area for 2024). Events include meet & greets, communication trainings, intimacy skill building, and more. See our upcoming schedule of events here (you’ll get free ticket links within the Membership).

• Holy Eros Resource Library: Access videos, guides, tutorials and more on sexuality, relationships, and communication from the Holy Eros Institute and Guest Teachers.

• Community Portal: Connect with other members (locally + globally), share resources, receive support and who knows, create your own partner events + meet-ups.

First opportunity to secure heavily discounted tickets to Worshipper ritual theatre events or Register for an Annual Membership & claim your complimentary ticket to WORSHIPPER THIS OCT 12. 2024

  • For now, they’re centralized in British Columbia (here the founders live), however we will be adding more locations soon as we expand our Ambassador program.

  • We’ll offer two monthly workshops that are about 90 minutes each. You can participate live or watch the recording on your own time. Our member space will be a place to connect, ask questions, try out practices with partners, and more. You can choose to participate as much or as little as you’d like.

    We encourage new members to sign up for at least six months (though we require no formal commitment). Studies show it takes anywhere from six months to a few years to change our habits, so think of this as a commitment to yourself and your future partner(s).

  • Anything can happen!

    Part of your membership includes access to online and IRL community events. In the online workshops, you’ll get to meet people and see how they show up. If you want to make a connection with someone, you could perhaps reach out to practice tools from a workshop or attend the next Worshipper together.

    In the future, we have bigger plans for those who want more formal introductions. Stay tuned!

  • Intimacy is for everyone. Singles and partnered people both face challenges – some different, some quite similar. Our goal is to offer a broad range of skills and tools that will support everyone on their journey to love better. Whether you’re looking to improve communication, light some fire in the bedroom, or express your desires, you’ll find what you’re looking for here.

  • Holy Eros is a place to explore, imagine, and shape your desires. We support all forms of relationships, and offer ways for you to envision, try out, and learn from people who have experienced relationships in all styles.

  • We believe that love is love, and no matter how it shows up, it is sacred. We actively engage queer voices and celebrate the legacy of freer erotic expression that LGBTQ folks have championed for decades.

    We believe that every person holds a unique combination of masculine and feminine energies, and we ground our practices in the exploration of your desired inner/outer balance, as fluid or fixed as you feel it each day. Our only goal is for you to explore your path to intimacy so that you can live more authentically in the name of love.

  • It makes sense to have concerns about baring your heart in a group of new people, especially since we have no collective roadmap to feeling safer in our intimate expression.

    One of our values at the Holy Eros Institute is cultivating inner safety while pushing edges, which means that we encourage you to move at the pace of your nervous system while also pointing yourself in the direction you want to grow.

    Rather than get caught up in the shoulds/should nots of participating, move slowly, celebrate yourself at every step, and remember that everyone else is also learning to navigate these waters. Amazing things can happen when we explore together!

  • While we encourage you to treat Holy Eros like a gym membership (set a schedule, make the commitment to show up, remember to breathe), we get that schedules don’t always align. Every call will be recorded and accessible in our library as long as you maintain an active membership.

  • Of course! If you’ve gotten what you’re looking for, or just change your mind, canceling is easy. While we don't offer refunds for partial unused months in the membership, you can cancel at any time. You’ll find all the details about cancellation in our welcome message.

  • No. Since this is a subscription, your access to the recordings and live workshops is dependent on you having an active membership. Any PDFs or downloads you receive as part of your membership are yours to keep.