THE HERO’S QUEST
The Initiation of your Mystic, Lover, Warrior & Sovereign
A PERSONAL JOURNEY WITH PHOENIX AMARA
IN THE HERO’S QUEST YOU’LL:
• Uncover your blockages and challenges around relationships with women & practice relationship skills so you can experience the kind of love you know is possible
• Learn valuable skills in intimacy, sexuality, and emotional connection so you can build a relationship with a Divine Feminine woman that connects you heart, mind, & soul
• Heal the relationship with your Divine Masculine essence & Express your Primal Energy, Your Assertive Penetrating Power, and Your Essence.
• Explore modalities around somatic therapy, conscious kink, and sacred sexuality to release triggers, anxiety, and traumas around women, sexuality & your pleasure.
This container is perfect for you if…
You're Seeking Deeper Intimacy in Your Relationships
You desire to connect with others on a more profound level, transcending surface-level interactions to explore emotional, spiritual, and physical intimacy. Maybe you’ve been afraid of vulnerability and opening yourself up and are ready to experience deeper depths of connection.
You Want to Explore and Understand Your Sexuality in a holistic way
You're curious about your sexual desires, fantasies, and boundaries and want to explore them in a safe, non-judgmental space with a knowledgeable guide. Perhaps you’ve been struggling with porn addiction -or- challenged with lack of sexual desire — either way, we’ll use somatic rituals to connect you back to your authentic Eros.
You're Interested in exploring your Intimacy & Sexuality in unconventional ways
Whether you have an interest in kink or BDSM but want to approach it with an emphasis on safety, consent, and communication, while understanding the psychological and emotional dynamics involved — or you’re ready to try something more embodied beyond talk therapy…my ways of working are fun AND involve a diversity of modalities that weave art + theatre therapy, role playing, creative expression and bring more of your beautiful + wild self out to play.
You're Ready to Heal Old Wounds Related to Sexuality and Intimacy
You recognize past experiences, traumas, or societal conditioning have impacted your relationship with your sexuality and intimacy, and you're ready to heal and transform these aspects of your life.
You're Curious About Rites of Passage work, Rituals, Archetypes and How They Can Positively Impact your Life
You're fascinated by archetypes like the Warrior, Lover, Magician, and Sovereign and want to explore how working with these energies can manifest in your relationships, sexuality, and personal expression.
You're Looking to Break Free from Sexual Shame or Guilt
You struggle with feelings of shame or guilt around your sexuality and are seeking a supportive environment to reclaim your sexual power and embrace your authentic self. You're on a journey of self-discovery and want to explore and express your true self, particularly in the realms of sexuality, intimacy, and personal relationships.
9. You're Seeking a Sacred, Empowering Approach to Sexuality
You want to approach your sexuality as a sacred, empowering aspect of your being, integrating spirituality with sexual expression to cultivate deeper fulfillment and joy.
Or perhaps…
EXAMPLES OF CLIENT EXPERIENCES
I’VE SUPPORTED
These are but a handful of case studies from people I’ve supported and helped over the past decade
¶ He still felt very adolescent in his embodiment in life - shy with women, afraid to express his desires and afraid to be a ‘toxic guy’. We worked on getting him tapped into fantasy, practicing semen retention, and exuding power from his balls (yes I said it). He transformed the way he saw himself, started taking up more space, setting higher standards for the women he would engage with, and actually feeling like the kind of man any woman would be lucky to have. He started feeling unfuckwithable, penetrative, and on purpose. His power even started expressing through his appearance, new clothing choices, how he spoke, and how we created his life.
¶ He was fresh out of a very devastating breakup + unsure of what to do with his life. He had left someone he deeply loved for no reason, and so we explored his fears of love, hidden shame + guilt he harboured from former relationships, and healed suicidal ideation that was appearing from ensuing depression. He made some major life moves post-coaching which included moving back to his home country to work on himself and his relationship with his parents.
¶ A man in a long-term marriage with no sexual relationship with his wife for 10+ years. He was seeking ways to rejuvenate intimacy, and together in our work we revealed his expectations and pressures for sex and worked on ways to build trust, communication & trust in his marriage - so as to rebuild meaningful connection. He took the steps to work on non-sexual intimacy and dissolve the tension, frustration and anger he felt through expressing care in other ways first.
¶ She was working on feeling comfortable in her body and releasing guilt + suppression of her sensuality. We worked on where she hid her desires (from herself + in relationships), and helped her release people-pleasing tendencies, connecting to her Wild Woman + unapologetic self, and rebuilding a deeper relationship to her oozing pleasure through neo-tantric practices.
• He was in a loving long-term marriage with his partner, but hiding a very prolific sex + porn addiction - which was contributing to his inner shame, guilt and lack of integrity. We worked on building his knowledge of Daoist practices to harness his sexual energy, expanding his knowledge of female pleasure & rituals he could practice with his partner, and we created a forgiveness ritual with his wife at the end of our time together, where he took ownership and apologized AND where she acknowledged her anger and expressed forgiveness and desire to move forward.
• She was someone who felt trapped in the paradox of either BEING EXPRESSED in her sexually but not being chosen in love -or- SACRIFICING her sexuality to suppress herself for a man in a relationship. We worked on connecting to and embodying her inner power, sexual desires, expression AND relationship needs - and dissolving the belief that it had to be one way or the other. She’s since met someone special and celebrated their one year wedding anniversary.
• He was a deeply logical person trapped in constraints placed on him by family & sought to explore love as well as freedom in his life choices. We worked on connecting him to his primordial archetypes (lover, warrior, alchemist & king), and claiming his power back from others. Major life changed happened for him including him leaving his unfulfilling career, travelling the world, and making better choices in love + relationships.
¶ She was in a long-term relationship with someone she loved, but also feeling held back in her sexual desire and expression. We worked on deepening trust with her body as well as letting go of sexual trauma with somatic practices so she could open to more trust in her voice, expression + life’s work.
• He was fresh out of a 10-year plus marriage that was unfulfilling emotionally & sexually, and was seeking to reconnect to himself and his power. Working with archetypal embodiment, neo-tantra practices, and rites of initiation, he remembered relationships COULD be fun and met someone he cultivated an adventurous and mutually fulfilling relationship with.
¶ She was in a loving + open relationship with her partner but also feeling not cherished and loved in her primary relationship. Together we explored her authentic desires for being provided for and adored, and where she was giving away her power to others. She claimed her power, took back control of her finances, stopped enabling partner, and began exerting boundaries in her relationships and her life.
• He was divorced and seeking to reconnect to love, yet was being suffocated by his deeply held resentment towards his ex + women in general. We explored his deeper desires around what a new vision of relationship would look like, and explored where he subconsciously used/didn’t appreciate women, and how he could deepen his devotion with his inner masc/feminine energy, to experience better fulfilling relationships. He also connected to his integrity and his bigger purposes and expression in the world.
THEMES WE ALSO EXPLORE:
ARCHETYPAL EXPLORATION
Explore the many facets of your being, expression and power through exploring the power of the Warrior, the sensuality of the Lover, the wisdom of the Magician, and the imbued power of the Sovereign (Queen or King). These explorations are done through very experiential ceremonies, rituals and events created uniquely for you.
AUTHENTIC INTIMACY:
Intimacy & the Art of Romance - with yourself & your beloved. Overcome porn addiction and become a Masterful lover in building sensual tension and energy for your partner, making them desire your every touch. Understanding how Trauma and the nervous system works in correlation to attachment styles, relating and intimacy.
RELATIONSHIP TOOLS:
Develop a deeper, lasting and more intimate bond with your partner (or future partner), and experience ecstatic states of soul lovemaking. Understand and master the art of sacred seduction the feminine/masculine, learn about the elements of female arousal and truly the art of romancing the feminine heart. Discover the power of transformational communication for navigating conflict, deepening your relationship and aligning your life visions. Explore non-traditional relationship styles.
UNLEASHING YOUR INNATE POWER: .
Overcome any hidden feelings of shame & guilt around your Primal side, and explore the work of embracing the shadow aspects of the masculine & feminine.
INNER ALCHEMY:
Sex magic - harnessing the power of your union for manifesting personal desires and intentions. Feel empowered in your confidence in intimate and romantic relationships and fully accept your Primal Sexual Energy. Explore the hidden secrets of energy magic and harnessing your life force energy.
SPIRITUAL PRACTICES:
Develop deep practices of communing with the Spirit World, including working with Sympathetic Magic, pagan nature rituals, and working with energy healing.
About your Divine Feminine Guide
Phoenix Amara is an internationally recognized Prayerformance Ceremonialist, Writer, and Divine Feminine guide. Having mentored in esoteric studies and metaphysics since childhood, she pursued degrees in Visual Arts and Environmental Design, explored plant medicines, personal development modalities, and finally the erotic arts. For over a decade, she’s facilitated hundreds of ceremonies & journeys for clients, as well as mentoring thousands through her online and in-person trainings, retreats and events.
You can find her interviewing experts on the HOLY EROS PODCAST: exploring the intersection of Soul, Sex & Art. Her best-selling memoir, “Ascension of Gaia: The Resurrection of the Sacred Sexual Feminine”, documents her own healing path of connecting to her sexuality and earth-based wisdom. With training in somatic therapy, neo-tantra, sacred sexuality and performance art, you can discover the wild and wonderful experiences and coaching she offers on this site.
As the former founder of Awakened Woman Convergence (2016, 2017) she’s organized international retreats and conferences in destinations such as Bali & Arizona, performed and spoken on dozens on stages across North America such as DreamTalks, SoulPlay, Lucidity Festival, and Electric Love Festival and led retreats in sacred sites like the Pyramids in Egypt and Chichen Itza Pyramids. Additional qualifications include Somatic Embodiment Training Level 1, DeArmouring Weekend Training with Nathan Marcuzzi, Authentic Relating Level 1, Non-Violent Communication Training, Personal Power with Lori-Ann Demers, Red Lotus Tantra Certification with Olivia Jade, Usui Reiki Levels 1, 2 & 3, Diploma of Visual Arts, Bachelors of Environmental Design, and feminine leaderships trainings with Nisha Moodley, Emily Utter, Love Leadership with Kamala Devi, Margie Pargie and others. Connect with her on IG.
HOW WE EXPLORE TOGETHER
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Ceremonies, Rituals & Events
We come together to weave energy & soul through online & in-person experiential rituals that may involve erotic archetypal embodiment, plant medicine ceremonies, breathwork, erotic art making and other surprising experiences.
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Quests
Every Hero must be tasked with Quests which will test his courage and help him pass the thresholds of initiation. Your Quests will include going forth into your inner landscape of emotion, spirit and memory through ‘journey work’ self-reflection & writing assignments, and other tests which will have you transform aspects of your inner life to enable change on the outside.
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Connection Calls
Staying connected in between our in-person journeys is an important aspect of reflection + integration. I’ll be here to support your integration and growth through pre & post journey calls, in-person connections and through our Private Telegram or Signal thread.
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Resources
Each month you’ll receive special resources to help you in your Quest - from Sacred Sexuality Resources Library in my private Hero’s online portal to shamanic gifts & books that will deepen your magic & be gifted in your Quest of Mastery.
Our Journey Together Will Explore
1x 90-min Online Inner Child Ceremony and Preparation Call
1x 2.5-3 hour In-Person Inner Lover Ceremony
1x 90-min Online Inner Alchemist Ceremony and Preparation Call
1x 90-min In-Person Inner Warrior Ceremony and Preparation Call
1x 2.5-3 hour In-Person Inner Sovereign (King) Ceremony and Preparation Call
1x 90-min Online Inner God Ceremony and Preparation Call
1x 90min Online Mythic Self Preparation Call
1x 2.5-3hour In-Person Ceremony: Mythic Self Ceremony
1x 90min-2 hour Online Integration Call
(Online or In-Person Sessions can be interchangeable dependant on your availability)
a hybrid of in-person & online sessions, ceremonies and rituals
PART VII
REBIRTH
into your MYTHIC SELF
Your Final Culmination includes a Ceremony initiating your Mythic Self - An Archetype Unique to you. This may be a unique photoshoot and embodiment experience, a specially curated group ceremony or whatever we desire to co-create in honouring your final ritual in your Hero’s Quest.
Are you ready to become the King, Lover, Alchemist & Warrior
you know you’re ready to be….
LOVE NOTES
“When I first came to this wonderful journey, I was tense with grief from the loss of a relationship. This resulted in experiences that I blindly stumbled into leaving me with guilt and shame about who I was in this world. It was something that has weighed heavy on me over the years and has proven destructive in relationships.
It was this knowing that a deepening in the relationship with myself and the necessity for some deep healing to occur that drove to me to work with Amara. Really, I did not know what to expect. On a superficial level there was the desire for gratification. There was also a deep yearning for a safe space. A safe space for me to cry, to come back to myself. A real need for a container within which I could crack open and let be whatever it was that needed to come out. I see that in my previous relationships, I had pushed myself into sexual experiences thinking that that was the way to find this container, to forcibly try to crack myself open.
It was good for me to see that I was open to throwing myself into this experience. For this, I will be eternally grateful for Amara and this program because she gave me the parameters, I needed in order to throw myself into this experience in a safe way enabling the self-exploration and healing that my heart truly desired.”
– S.H, Fall 2019 3 Month Mentorship Graduate
EMBODY YOUR LOVER | WARRIOR | ALCHEMIST | KING
What’s included:
The Hero’s Quest weaves online sessions, along with in-person experiences which includes ceremonies, adventures and explorations of tantra, kink, & possible group experiences. This is a deep dive which takes place over the duration of 3-6 months (schedule dependant). Think of this as an experience without the entanglment of a regular relationship…where you can explore the depths of your relating (and your shadows), heal old wounds, and face your desire and darkness in a container with a conduit of the Divine Feminine.
Your investment includes my time + expertise including:
• 9x ONLINE & IN-PERSON SESSIONS: These 90min-2hr sessions are engaging workshop-style sessions that weave somatic therapy, conscious kink, tantra, embodiment practices, and reflection work. 5 online Session & 4x In-Person Sessions: (We’re flexible to switch timing of online vs. in-person sessions). This is an example:
1x 90-min Online Inner Child Ceremony and Preparation Call
1x 2.5-4 hour In-Person Inner Lover Ceremony
1x 90-min Online Inner Alchemist Ceremony and Preparation Call
1x 2.5-4 hours-min In-Person Inner Warrior Ceremony and Preparation Call
1x 90min-2hour hour Online Inner Sovereign Ceremony and Preparation Call
1x 2.5-4 hour In-Person Inner God Ceremony and Preparation Call
1x 90min Online Mythic Self Preparation Call
1x 2.5-4 hour In-Person Ceremony: Mythic Self Ceremony
1x 90min-2 hour Online Integration Call
AND RESOURCES: Such as PDF Guides around Tantra, Sacred Sexuality, Kink & BDSM which you’ll explore in your mentorship.
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One time payment of $9,000 CAD (save $1800) |
-or- 4x Monthly Payments (Deposit + 3 Monthly Installments) of $2700CAD
YOUR TRIBUTE & CONTRIBUTION
THIS IS A RARE & UNIQUE OPPORTUNITY TO JOURNEY WITH ME OVER THE DURATION OF 3-6 MONTHS
And as such, it also asks for my devotion, presence and energy — to bring my fullest attention to your journey in such a devotional way.
YOUR TRIBUTE IS AN INVESTMENT INTO YOUR GROWTH AS A MAN…Ready for it?
CLIENT EXPERIENCE:
“When I first started the mentorship I was not very trusting. I feel like I always held back when sharing ie not telling the whole story and not really being honest with myself. I felt I was very timid about my sexuality, very unsure of myself, and not really knowing who I was.
I believed I was coming to learn how to be a more sexual person, more confident, more in control, and to be an overall better lover.
I learnt that I am enough and that sex is much more than an orgasm, and that there is way more connection in sex – way more pleasure in taking your time and that slow and soft is more. I feel like I’m a work in progress and I’m always moving forward. I didn’t realize how closed off I was and how much more open I am now. I was very defensive and not open to listening.
I didn’t handle the blocks very well, and I really just shut down and got defensive, once I was able to listen it all started to make sense – everything just started to flow, now I find I’m much more open to my instructors direction.
We had many amazing journeys, they were very powerful. I remember one with my feminine and my masculine my four year old parents in the garden, Amazing. At the last session I could not believe how much pleasure I could feel.
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I feel I’m so much more open I’m calmer I feel so much connected to myself it’s like I understand myself more than I ever had before. I’m much more confident in myself, I feel I communicate with others better, sexually I feel like I’m a little smoother more comfortable and I know more about sex.
I feel now like I’m dancing in my own sexuality. I feel sexy not ugly, I feel lust and not shame, and I feel like I want more more more.
When I joined the mentorship I thought I was in tune with myself I thought I was grounded I thought I knew about sex. I thought I knew pleasure – BOY was I wrong. There was highs and lows – lots of stories it’s like I went to the bottom and you brought me back up you made me look at myself and it wasn’t easy for either of us but what a reward and it’s working every single day, I loved this mentorship.
When I started I felt shame and now I feel proud I’m stronger happier and I really feel free I’m dancing inside all the time.
Thanks so much Amara you are a amazing person and I feel so grateful our paths crossed.”
– H.M, Summer 2019
Unleash yourself….
and prepare for a life-changing experience that will crack you open…