MYTHIC LOVE
A 3-Month Quest through love, power & intimacy: For Couples or Singles
1-1 IMMERSION WITH PHOENIX AMARA
Make the Mythic a reality, in this quest exploring & creating Mythic Love.
Because you deserve the kind of love that melts the coldest of hearts
A love that transcends time & seasons of life
The Kind of love that inspires the Gods & makes Creator weep with joy
yet…..
LOVE REQUIRES COURAGE & INTENTION
& for those looking to deepen intimacy, communication, and sexuality with your partner - creating the container for your love to continue thriving after the honeymoon period is Crucial.
And for those desiring love & yearning for it - yet unable to find it (or worse - running from it when it does show up)….is another kind of hell.
In MYTHIC LOVE….we explore the power of giving and receive love with others AND with self…
So you can heal old wounds of abandonment, triggers, pain and grief.
Are you in a relationship but…
You want to create deeper trust in your relationship and traditional talk therapy hasn't quite cut it.
• You want to feel deeper states of union, connection & adoration in intimacy and sexual experiences yet there’s something off, lacklustre or a big disconnect in approaches to your intimate life.
• You know learning more practices that focus on slowness, spiritual connection and somatic practice will be beneficial.
• You want to experience deeper intimacy, love-making and connection with your partner, and you both feel stuck as to what to do in order to birth a new vision for your relationship.
• You're both ready to learn together with an experienced guide to explore modalities for deeper connection, learn new skills in sacred sexuality, neo-tantra and expand your communication skills.
Or maybe you’re single (and maybe happily) yet you know Great Love is something you desire but….
• You've been doing the work; healing your heart, focusing on your growth, and really stepping up your embodiment game - yet are struggling to meet aligned humans to date.
• You’re still hung up on your ex, the one who got away, or the one who rejected you - and finding it hard to let go.
• Dating has felt like a fuck-show. You're not finding luck on the apps, and it's been a struggle to find others looking to connect authentically (vs. those situationships).
• Or you just know that life will feel more enriching with someone to share it with
I’m Phoenix,
And I’ve been guiding others in the power of self-love, sacred sexuality, sensual embodiment and intentional rituals for over a decade with thousands of people around the world.
As the Co-Founder of the Holy Eros Institute, my mission is to support love in thriving - within yourself, others, your heart and your pleasure. My extensive experience includes trainings in somatic embodiment, NVC, De-armouring, Neo-Tantra, Energy Healing, Authentic Relating and more.
My work weaves relating & communication skills, neo-tantra, embodiment and somatic therapy practices, archetypal embodiment, creative expression and ritual theatre to create the space for your Mythic Love to manifest and thrive.
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN
OUR WORK TOGETHER & TALK THERAPY
Talk therapy is a powerful tool of transformation & I’m a massive advocate for utilizing talk therapy especially in the beginning stages of personal growth.
Yet…personal growth is evolving along with our needs as humans, and sometimes people can feel stuck in their stories, find themselves going in loops through therapy, or even bored with talk-therapy approaches.
Our work together will weave reflection and inquiry-based approaches AND the body - where you’re guided to come back to your inner knowing through your whole vessel (and not just your mind)
It’s an experience that reminds one HEALING CAN BE FUN! Like deliciously fun…
THROUGH OUR WORK
DISCOVER
• The power of Sacred Sexuality through embodied Somatic Practices, Rituals and Experiences where you’ll liberate yourself into authentic pleasure, desire + needs.
• The Fundamentals of Energy & Shamanic Practices derived from Neo-Tantra, Daoist Tantra, Energy healing and earth-based approaches to ritual.
• The Power of Ritual & How to incorporate simple rituals for reflection, growth and connection
• How to Employ simple communication tools with others to enhance intimacy, express your needs (and authentic desires), deepen connection and open up more trust
• Clarity around your Shadows (through Shadow Work) with love, explore the areas you fear and avoid yet need to face in order to see powerful breakthroughs
IN THE 3-MONTHS OF WORKING TOGETHER YOU’LL EXPLORE:
ARCHETYPAL EXPLORATION
Explore the many facets of your being, expression and power through exploring the power of the Warrior, the sensuality of the Lover, the wisdom of the Magician, and the imbued power of the Sovereign (Queen or King). These explorations are done through very experiential online ceremonies, rituals and coaching for you.
AUTHENTIC INTIMACY:
Intimacy & the Art of Romance - with yourself & your beloved. Whether you’re ready to overcome porn addiction and become a Masterful lover in building sensual tension and energy for your partner or understanding your nervous system in correlation to attachment styles, relating and intimacy, we’ll explore what authentic intimacy is for you.
RELATIONSHIP TOOLS:
Develop a deeper, lasting and more intimate bond with your partner (or future partner), and experience ecstatic states of soul lovemaking. Discover the power of transformational communication for navigating conflict, deepening your relationship and aligning your life visions.
UNLEASHING YOUR INNATE POWER:
Overcome any hidden feelings of shame & guilt around your Primal side, and explore the work of embracing the shadow aspects of the masculine & feminine thru conscious kink & BDSM philosophy.
INNER ALCHEMY:
Feel empowered in your confidence in intimate and romantic relationships and fully accept your Sexual Energy. Explore the hidden secrets of your sexual energy and how to better direct and harness your life force energy. Learn the sacred art of harmonizing your Inner Feminine & Masculine sides.
SOMATIC & SPIRITUAL PRACTICES:
Explore powerful somatic tools such as breathwork. energy cultivation, Daoist Tantric practices, and work derived from my many years of education and training. Develop deep practices of communing with the Spirit World, including working with nature rituals, energy healing and ancestral work.
This container is perfect for you if…
You're Seeking Deeper Intimacy in Your Relationships
You desire to connect with your partner(s) on a more profound level, transcending surface-level interactions to explore emotional, spiritual, and physical intimacy. Maybe you’ve been afraid of vulnerability and opening yourself up and are ready to experience deeper depths of connection.
You Want to Explore and Understand Your Sexuality in a holistic way
You're curious about your sexual desires, fantasies, and boundaries and want to explore them in a safe, non-judgmental space with a knowledgeable guide. Perhaps you’ve been struggling with porn addiction -or- challenged with lack of sexual desire — either way, we’ll use somatic rituals to connect you back to your authentic Eros.
You're Interested in exploring your Intimacy & Sexuality in unconventional ways
Whether you have an interest in kink or BDSM but want to approach it with an emphasis on safety, consent, and communication, while understanding the psychological and emotional dynamics involved — or you’re ready to try something more embodied beyond talk therapy…my ways of working are fun AND involve a diversity of modalities that weave art + theatre therapy, role playing, creative expression and bring more of your beautiful + wild self out to play.
Or perhaps…
You're Ready to Heal Old Wounds Related to Sexuality and Intimacy
You recognize past experiences, traumas, or societal conditioning have impacted your relationship with your sexuality and intimacy, and you're ready to heal and transform these aspects of your life.
You're Curious About Rites of Passage work, Rituals, Archetypes and How They Can Positively Impact your Life
You're fascinated by archetypes like the Warrior, Lover, Magician, and Sovereign and want to explore how working with these energies can manifest in your relationships, sexuality, and personal expression.
You're Looking to Break Free from Sexual Shame or Guilt
You struggle with feelings of shame or guilt around your sexuality and are seeking a supportive environment to reclaim your sexual power and embrace your authentic self. You're on a journey of self-discovery and want to explore and express your true self, particularly in the realms of sexuality, intimacy, and personal relationships.
9. You're Seeking a Sacred, Empowering Approach to Sexuality
You want to approach your sexuality as a sacred, empowering aspect of your being, integrating spirituality with sexual expression to cultivate deeper fulfillment and joy.
EXAMPLES OF CLIENT EXPERIENCES
I’VE SUPPORTED
These are but a handful of case studies from people I’ve supported and helped over the past decade
¶ He was fresh out of a very devastating breakup + unsure of what to do with his life. He had left someone he deeply loved for no reason, and so we explored his fears of love, hidden shame + guilt he harboured from former relationships, and healed suicidal ideation that was appearing from ensuing depression. He made some major life moves post-coaching which included moving back to his home country to work on himself and his relationship with his parents.
¶ A man in a long-term marriage with no sexual relationship with his wife for 10+ years. He was seeking ways to rejuvenate intimacy, and together in our work we revealed his expectations and pressures for sex and worked on ways to build trust, communication & trust in his marriage - so as to rebuild meaningful connection. He took the steps to work on non-sexual intimacy and dissolve the tension, frustration and anger he felt through expressing care in other ways first.
¶ She was working on feeling comfortable in her body and releasing guilt + suppression of her sensuality. We worked on where she hid her desires (from herself + in relationships), and helped her release people-pleasing tendencies, connecting to her Wild Woman + unapologetic self, and rebuilding a deeper relationship to her oozing pleasure through neo-tantric practices.
• He was in a loving long-term marriage with his partner, but hiding a very prolific sex + porn addiction - which was contributing to his inner shame, guilt and lack of integrity. We worked on building his knowledge of Daoist practices to harness his sexual energy, expanding his knowledge of female pleasure & rituals he could practice with his partner, and we created a forgiveness ritual with his wife at the end of our time together, where he took ownership and apologized AND where she acknowledged her anger and expressed forgiveness and desire to move forward.
• She was someone who felt trapped in the paradox of either BEING EXPRESSED in her sexually but not being chosen in love -or- SACRIFICING her sexuality to suppress herself for a man in a relationship. We worked on connecting to and embodying her inner power, sexual desires, expression AND relationship needs - and dissolving the belief that it had to be one way or the other. She’s since met someone special and celebrated their one year wedding anniversary.
• He was a deeply logical person trapped in constraints placed on him by family & sought to explore love as well as freedom in his life choices. We worked on connecting him to his primordial archetypes (lover, warrior, alchemist & king), and claiming his power back from others. Major life changed happened for him including him leaving his unfulfilling career, travelling the world, and making better choices in love + relationships.
¶ She was in a long-term relationship with someone she loved, but also feeling held back in her sexual desire and expression. We worked on deepening trust with her body as well as letting go of sexual trauma with somatic practices so she could open to more trust in her voice, expression + life’s work.
• He was fresh out of a 10-year plus marriage that was unfulfilling emotionally & sexually, and was seeking to reconnect to himself and his power. Working with archetypal embodiment, neo-tantra practices, and rites of initiation, he remembered relationships COULD be fun and met someone he cultivated an adventurous and mutually fulfilling relationship with.
¶ She was in a loving + open relationship with her partner but also feeling not cherished and loved in her primary relationship. Together we explored her authentic desires for being provided for and adored, and where she was giving away her power to others. She claimed her power, took back control of her finances, stopped enabling partner, and began exerting boundaries in her relationships and her life.
• He was divorced and seeking to reconnect to love, yet was being suffocated by his deeply held resentment towards his ex + women in general. We explored his deeper desires around what a new vision of relationship would look like, and explored where he subconsciously used/didn’t appreciate women, and how he could deepen his devotion with his inner masc/feminine energy, to experience better fulfilling relationships. He also connected to his integrity and his bigger purposes and expression in the world.
STAGES OF YOUR JOURNEY
MONTH 1 | 3 SESSIONS
Session 1 | The Inner Child
Connect to Ancestral Patterns of Relationship in your Family & Understand your Attachment Styles, Relational Process, Wounds & Fears. Understand where you seek the Mother or Father in your Relationships & how to heal so you can begin re-patterning your relationship to love.
Session 2 | The Inner Lover
Access the power of self-love for greater openness, intimacy and connection with your partner and yourself. Honour desire and release shame and guilt around your desires, your body and your sexuality. Learn honouring rituals to connect with the Yoni + Lingham in releasing sexual trauma and developing more intimate practices of connection.
Session 3 | Integration Session
We’ll put these practices into action where you’ll develop and design (with my support) a unique ritual to honour yourself, your desires, and love. This session will help chart your pleasure map of desire and actualize next steps of discovery in your next month together.
MONTH 2 | 3 SESSIONS
Session 4 | The Inner Warrior
Explore Power Dynamics in relationship, boundaries, darker desires, and the primordial impulse to surrender or to control (and how they can diminish or add to polarity). Illicit your fire, power & courage through ritual coaching designed to activate your inner power, primal energy and Warrior. Access the important emotions of Grief/Anger/+ Primal Power. Guided support around BDSM, Conscious Kink + Embodying Power Dynamics in a safe way.
Session 5 | The Inner Alchemist
Access the power of self-love and harvesting the medicine of pain, heartbreak, resentment and your shadows for breakthroughs in your intimacy with self and others. The Alchemist will support you in transforming and alchemizing darker emotions into new expressions for growth + expression. Embody the power of the Alchemist through the Shapeshifter.
Session 6 | The Inner Sovereign
The Inner King/Queen will invite you to step into the new lifestyle, standards and desires with knowing your value, worthiness, and regal power. Craft your Relationship Vision, Ideals & Characteristics of who YOU will be in relationship. Tap into the greater vision (and self-esteem) for your future love, relationship & lifestyle.
MONTH 3 | 3 SESSIONS
Session 7 | The Inner God/dess
Experience a deeper spiritual connection and trust in Creator/Great Spirit/Universe or your own unique understanding of Oneness through practice and coaching - so you can remove partners from the place where God/dess should sit. You’ll also explore what it is to treat yourself as a living embodiment of Creator through a Rite of Reclamation.
Session 8 | The Mythic Self
Your Journey Culminates in an Honouring of Your own unique Archetype. Prepare yourself for the vision of your your Legacy through a special ritual you create based on your Mythic Self Story…
Session 9 | Integration
You’re now ready to write the next chapter in your story.
Set your POWERFUL INTENTIONS for life beyond MYTHIC LOVE, and create a new story that reflects this new Rebirth of your power, purpose and pleasure.
LOVE NOTES FROM FORMER CLIENTS
graduates from former solo & group coaching containers
HOW WE WORK TOGETHER
Online Zoom Sessions
We come together to weave energy & soul through online coaching sessions that weave experiential rituals archetypal embodiment, breathwork, neo-tantra, and other practices.We can schedule up to 3 sessions in person if you are located in the Vancouver region (at my private coaching studio).
Personal Quests
Every Hero or Heroine on the path must be tasked with Quests which will test his or her courage and help them pass the thresholds of initiation. Your Quests will include going forth into your inner landscape of emotion, spirit and memory through ‘journey work’: self-reflection writing assignments, and other ‘assignments’ in your life which will have you transform aspects of your inner life to enable change on the outside.
Connection Text & Audio
Staying connected in between our online journeys is an important aspect of reflection + integration. I’ll be here to support your integration and growth through through our Private Whatapp chats & audio notes.
Resources
You’ll receive special resources to help you in your Quests - from the Sacred Sexuality Resources Library in my private online portal to shamanic gifts & books that will deepen your magic & be gifted in your Quest of Mastery.
Take the invitation to embark on a Quest through MYTHIC LOVE
with Archetypes of The Inner Child, Inner Lover, Warrior, Alchemist, Sovereign (King & Queen), God/dess Self, and Mythic Self to access Powerful Love + Healing.
LOVE NOTES FROM FORMER CLIENTS:
“When I first came to this wonderful journey, I was tense with grief from the loss of a relationship. This resulted in experiences that I blindly stumbled into leaving me with guilt and shame about who I was in this world. It was something that has weighed heavy on me over the years and has proven destructive in relationships.
It was this knowing that a deepening in the relationship with myself and the necessity for some deep healing to occur that drove to me to work with Phoenix. Really, I did not know what to expect. On a superficial level there was the desire for gratification. There was also a deep yearning for a safe space. A safe space for me to cry, to come back to myself. A real need for a container within which I could crack open and let be whatever it was that needed to come out. I see that in my previous relationships, I had pushed myself into sexual experiences thinking that that was the way to find this container, to forcibly try to crack myself open.
It was good for me to see that I was open to throwing myself into this experience. For this, I will be eternally grateful for Phoenix and this program because she gave me the parameters I needed in order to throw myself into this experience in a safe way enabling the self-exploration and healing that my heart truly desired.”
– S.H, Fall 2019 3 Month Mentorship Graduate
MYTHIC LOVE
Sessions are booked within 3 months, generally one every week (with one off for integration). Online sessions can be deliciously fun, and you’ll be guided in everything from scenarios, tantric practices, consent games & more fun and experiential practices. IF you happen to live in the British Columbia area, we can book up to 3 of our sessions in person.
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YOUR JOURNEY INCLUDES:
• 9x Calls: (90-120 min): Calls scheduled depending on your schedule + mine:
• Inner Child Session
• Inner Lover Session
• Integration Session
• Inner Warrior Session
• Inner Alchemist Session
• Inner Sovereign Session
• Inner God/dess Session
• Your Mythic LOVE + Self Session
• Integration Session
• Telegram or Whatsapp Voice Audio Connection (unlimited)
• At Home Quests & Ritual Assignments + Access to Resource Library
• Additional Resources (sometimes books, shamanic tools or gifts that complement your journey)
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Coaching is made either through a One Time Payment of $5000 CAD or 4x payments of $1500 CAD (deposit + 3 monthly payments).
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Will calls be recorded? Only if you want them to be. If you want a copy of our session, I’m more than happy to record and send to you.
What about Privacy: Privacy is the secret glue in my path & work. I’ve supported and worked with people and couples from many walks of life. Having a very strict policy + confidentiality code of ethics is the secret by my success.
How are payments processed: Payments are either processed through e-transfer (with taxes added) - or - Credit Card.
Meet Your Guide
While I have a diversity of experience and trainings over the past decade, I also believe we are more than our credentials. However, training does matter and is important - so my professional bio would read something like this:
Phoenix Amara is an internationally recognized Prayerformance Ceremonialist, Writer, and Sacred Sexuality guide. Having mentored in esoteric studies and metaphysics since childhood, she pursued degrees in Visual Arts and Environmental Design, explored plant medicines, personal development modalities, and finally the erotic arts. For over a decade, she’s facilitated hundreds of ceremonies & journeys for clients, as well as mentoring thousands through her online and in-person trainings, retreats and events.
You can find her interviewing experts on the HOLY EROS PODCAST: exploring the intersection of Soul, Sex & Art. Her best-selling memoir, “Ascension of Gaia: The Resurrection of the Sacred Sexual Feminine”, documents her own healing path of connecting to her sexuality and earth-based wisdom. With training in somatic therapy, neo-tantra, sacred sexuality and performance art, you can discover the wild and wonderful experiences and coaching she offers through her website: www.phoenixamara.com
As the former founder of Awakened Woman Convergence (2016, 2017) she’s organized international retreats and conferences in destinations such as Bali & Arizona, performed and spoken on dozens on stages across North America such as DreamTalks, SoulPlay, Lucidity Festival, and Electric Love Festival and led retreats in sacred sites like the Pyramids in Egypt and Chichen Itza Pyramids. Additional qualifications include DeArmouring Training with Nathan Marcuzzi, Somatic Embodiment Training Level 1, Authentic Relating Level 1, Non-Violent Communication Training, Personal Power Level 1 with Lori-Ann Demers, Red Lotus Tantra Certification with Olivia Jade, Usui Reiki Levels 1, 2 & 3, Diploma of Visual Arts, Bachelors of Environmental Design, and feminine leaderships trainings with Nisha Moodley, Emily Utter, 1 year Love Leadership Mentorship with Kamala Devi, Margie Pargie and others. Connect with her on IG.
“Before meeting with Phoenix I had previously dipped my toes into tantra, somatic and bodywork with a newly certified practitioner, and my experience was enlightening and life-changing.
We are conditioned to fight most of what we don’t intentionally want in our lives, and this creates a non-surrender environment preventing us from growing as we accept and surrender to our process enlightening us further then before.
My hero’s journey looks like this, when I began the temple journey I was confident but also nervous about the unfolding and whether or not we would bond to create the most amazing journey. I needed to embrace my understanding even though I wasn’t sure what that looked like. I faced myself in a most unimaginable way feeling conflict with your idea and the process of what was to come. It was through this work that I was able to finally see myself with clear lenses to see myself with no excuses, and to accept that I am the creator of me, the extension of myself toward others that to place no blame for unwanted life events has been my biggest accomplishment and transformation to date.
Grateful for the young powerful woman who has taught me more then I would have believed possible. Any man can learn valuable life lessons from a woman when his ego is hushed, and he uses two ears and his heart to listen.
So proud of you and your ability to engage in this work – the world thanks you and many others like you. With so much love surging through me, its hard to express with words what you mean to me everything I said to you from the beginning was real not exaggerated not fake but as real as I can be, thank you Phoenix Amara for facilitating me on my journey. I am proud to tell you that I love you.”
– N.V, Summer 2019
A personal experience from a former client
“When I first started the mentorship I was not very trusting. I feel like I always held back when sharing ie not telling the whole story and not really being honest with myself. I felt I was very timid about my sexuality, very unsure of myself, and not really knowing who I was.
I believed I was coming to learn how to be a more sexual person, more confident, more in control, and to be an overall better lover. I learnt that I am enough and that sex is much more than an orgasm, and that there is way more connection in sex – way more pleasure in taking your time and that slow and soft is more. I feel like I’m a work in progress and I’m always moving forward. I didn’t realize how closed off I was and how much more open I am now. I was very defensive and not open to listening.
I didn’t handle the blocks very well, and I really just shut down and got defensive, once I was able to listen it all started to make sense – everything just started to flow, now I find I’m much more open to my instructors direction. We had many amazing journeys, they were very powerful. I remember one with my feminine and my masculine my four year old parents in the garden, Amazing. At the last session I could not believe how much pleasure I could feel.
I feel I’m so much more open I’m calmer I feel so much connected to myself it’s like I understand myself more than I ever had before. I’m much more confident in myself, I feel I communicate with others better, sexually I feel like I’m a little smoother more comfortable and I know more about sex.
I feel now like I’m dancing in my own sexuality. I feel sexy not ugly, I feel lust and not shame, and I feel like I want more more more.
When I joined the mentorship I thought I was in tune with myself I thought I was grounded I thought I knew about sex. I thought I knew pleasure – BOY was I wrong. There was highs and lows – lots of stories it’s like I went to the bottom and you brought me back up you made me look at myself and it wasn’t easy for either of us but what a reward and it’s working every single day, I loved this mentorship.
When I started I felt shame and now I feel proud I’m stronger happier and I really feel free I’m dancing inside all the time. Thanks so much Phoenix you are a amazing person and I feel so grateful our paths crossed.”
– H.M, Summer 2019
