discover how to do love, better

Intimacy is a deeply held human desire.

All of us crave that feeling of seeing and being seen.

Whether it comes from partnership, romantic encounters, or late night talks with a best friend, intimacy creates meaning and richness in life. 

But many of us struggle to find intimacy. And when we find it, we often struggle to hold it. 

Enter the Holy Eros Community. 

The Holy Eros Community is a collective of lovers and seekers dedicated to gaining the skills – not swipes – to build a dream relationship. 

Even though being in a satisfying relationship is one of the key indicators of happiness in life, few of us are taught the skills we need to create and deepen intimacy. As a result, we fumble, feel like failures, or settle for crumbs.  

At Holy Eros, we believe that just like going to a gym trains our muscles,

we need to train in intimacy if we want the relationship of our dreams. 

This is what the Holy Eros Community is all about. 

Get off the dating apps. 

Stop trying to figure it out alone. 

Find Holy Eros instead.

Holy Eros is an online community (with some IRL perks) where you can build your skills in relating.

Whether you’re single, partnered, or somewhere in between, you will learn something new and meet people committed to the same. 

Our members gather twice monthly online for workshops, rituals, creative projects, and “ask me anything” sessions with leaders, coaches, therapists, and experts in the field.

We also hold regular in-person events in Vancouver to create opportunities to put into practice all we’re learning.

These sessions are more than just the mechanics of intimacy – here each person learns to explore what love means to them and how to bring it into life. 

A Community in Support of Love

The Holy Eros Community is a place to build skills, meet friends, and elevate love as a sacred act. Each month, we cover topics related to: 

RELATIONSHIP TO SELF: Deepening self-love, embodiment, cultivating confidence, shadow work, trauma healing, and wholeness.

RELATIONSHIP TO OTHERS: Practices for deeper intimacy, communication skills, healing negative attachment patterns, and navigating conflict like a grown up.   

SACRED SENSUALITY: Practices to invigorate your bedroom, deepen your self-pleasure, explore your erotic self, and make magic between the sheets. 

While we aren’t promising that you’ll meet the love of your life here (though you just might;), our goal is to help you find the love in your life. 

PERHAPS YOU:

• Desire to meet someone from a place of authentic connection & attraction - without needing to endlessly SWIPE yourself into a new relationship

Want to meet like-minded people who are focused on developing emotional intelligence, relational awareness and deep relating skills

ACHE to create deeper trust in your relationship + maybe traditional talk therapy hasn't quite cut it.

Want to explore modalities for deeper connection, learn new skills in sacred sexuality, and expand your communication skills. 

 

Who is the Holy Eros Community for?

No matter if you’ve been devastated by love, confused by it, or ignored by it completely – you are not unloveable. You simply haven’t had the map to explore the world of love you desire to live in.  Our community is inclusive for all walks + ways of love: whether you’re partnered/single, monogamous/open, het/queer, cis/non-binary, or still figuring it out – there’s a place for you and your beating heart.

 
 

FOR SINGLES

desiring love and intimacy

  • Learn new skills to attract and connect with aligned partners.

  • Find a community of like-minded people who are looking for love in the right places.   

  • Learn to transform old behaviours and patterns that don’t serve you.

FOR COUPLES

seeking to strengthen their bonds

  • Gain skills to heal from past wounds.

  • Learn to ask for what you want and honor your partner’s desires.

  • Learn how to use conflict as a tool to grow intimacy.

  • Get support from a community, and see that you’re not alone.

FOR ANYONE LOOKING

to heal from heartbreak & believe in love again.

  • Learn to let go of resentment and blame.

  • Learn how to expand your heart and stay open to love, harnessing the wisdom from past experiences

  • Find resonance in a community of people who believe in the power of love, and are doing the work to bring it into their lives.

Themes We Explore in

the Holy Eros Community

in OUR WORKSHOPS and EVENTS

COMMUNICATION PRACTICES & RESOURCES

Learn to navigate fears, conflict, and wounds that ultimately appear in relationships with simple, yet potent communication tools.

RELATIONSHIP TO SELF: Create the most delicious love affair with yourself through self-love ceremonies, embodiment practices, cultivating confidence, shadow work, trauma healing, and more.

NAVIGATING GRIEF, LOSS & HEARTBREAK

Practices and perspectives to use heartbreak for healing (rather than stuffing pain and grief away)

MEETING LIKE-MINDED PEOPLE ON A GROWTH PATH

Whether you meet other couples, friends, or rad & aligned people to date outside of dating app culture, you’ll find soul family and conscious community.

SACRED SEXUALITY

Exploring power dynamics, neo-tantra, kink, and self-pleasure to deepen trust, pleasure and passion in your relationships. 

DEEPENING EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

So you’ll attract more available partners or develop a deeper connection with your lover with the support of our team, guest teachers and extended community.

What You’ll Get as a Member of the
Holy Eros Community

The Holy Eros Community is like a gym for your heart…and other parts. 

As a member, you’ll get exclusive access to in-person and online workshops, events, and resources that will open your capacity for deeper intimacy, connect you with community, and bring more sizzle into your life….along with a community of top-tier humans devoted to emotional + romantic growth.

WHAT’S IN IT FOR YOU:

Monthly workshops and ceremonial space to expand your skills in intimacy, sexuality, and relationships 

The Holy Eros Community is a way to reimagine love and dating – no swiping required. 

Each month we’ll offer two live online workshops (recorded for our library) on topics such as conscious dating, sacred sexuality, better communication, deepening intimacy, relationship styles, and so much more.  Take a look at our upcoming offerings on the events calendar below.

New ways to unlock the power of eros through creative play and ritual arts 

Our events and resource library will expand your expression of love, sexuality, and intimacy. We’ll share at-home rituals, creative art projects to envision the love you want, and playful ways to unlock your inner lover. 

Think of these as ways to make healing work feel less like “work.” 

Access to in-person events

Founding Members of the Holy Eros Community will receive access to a free in-person gathering (for now for the first three months) as well as highly discounted access to special events (50%-75% off our early bird price), and get first dibs on tickets before we open them to the public. 

Our events take what we’re learning together online, offline.

Evocative and illuminating online courses on love, sex, and intimacy

Learn powerful intimacy practices, sacred sexuality tips, and erotic storytelling journeys that will take you to the heart of your deepest desires. Learn from world-class speakers, sexuality educators, relationship coaches, and wellness professionals who will share their wisdom and guide you through transformative practices.

Find a taste of our storytelling skills here.

Access to a community of seekers ushering in an intimacy revival 

Whether you’re single, partnered, monogamous, or open, community is a vital part of any relationship. The Holy Eros Community brings together a highly curated group of people who all share the desire to find new ways of connecting to themselves and others. 

Our community is a place to find authentic friendships (...and maybe more;).    

Access to discounts on coaching, events, courses, and more

As our community grows, we’ll continue to add perks, discounts, and in-person events to bring intimacy to life. Get in on the ground floor and get ready for something different. 

Founders Memberships

start at $111/month  

Check out our first three months of workshops and events

AS ONE OF OUR 100 FOUNDING MEMBERS - YOU’LL GET SPECIAL PERKS SUCH AS:

• Free access (for three months) to a monthly in-person event for as long as your membership is active. Currently most events are held in Vancouver BC, however as our community expands, so too will our regions.

• First opportunity to secure heavily discounted tickets and spots to our in-person workshops, exclusive trainings, experiences, and Worshipper ritual theatre events.

ONLINE: Tuesday May 14, 7- 8:30pm PST Opening Ceremony with Sonja + Phoenix:  

Fertile Ground Ceremony

Take part in a ritual to build a nest for the type of intimacy you desire. We’ll lead you through intention setting, grounding, and an erotic storytelling ceremony to bring your relationship desires to life.

IN-PERSON: Thursday May 23, 6:30-9pm

Full Moon Cacao & Connection

Location: To Be announced, Vancouver

Gather with Holy Eros Members for cacao and connection. Learn authentic relating practices, breathwork, and conscious connecting. (Event limited to 50 ppl.)

ONLINE: Sunday May 26, 4:00 - 5:30pm PST

Connecting from the Heart

Learn authentic relating practices with our special guest teacher to expand your ability to invite connection and enjoy deeper intimacy.

IN-PERSON: June 20, 6:30-9pm PST

Explore your Eros: Practices for Exploring Sensuality

in Kerrisdale, Vancouver

Explore your eroticism through a five senses sensual ceremony. (Event limited to 50 ppl.)

ONLINE: Tuesday July, 7- 8:30pm PST

Holy Triggers

Learn how to work with emotional triggers to expand into greater expression. Take part in a ritualized somatic practice to reset your nervous system from past pain and grow into feeling more pleasure.

ONLINE: Tuesday June 11, 7- 8:30pm PST

Sonja + Phoenix

Meeting Your Inner God(dess)

Explore archetypes of our favourite God(desses) and embody their expression to bring more fire to your bedroom.

ONLINE: June 23, 4pm - 5:30pm PST

Find Your Flavour

Learn from our guest teacher the different styles that erotic expression can take, and how you can maximize your favourite flavours for hotter solo or partnered play.

IN-PERSON: Thursday July 18, 6:30 - 9pm PST

Exploring Erotic Ritual Theatre

in Kerrisdale, Vancouver

Explore the ways that drama play can transmute shadows in relationships, sexuality and intimacy. (Event limited to 50 ppl.)

FOUNDING MEMBER

Become a Founding Member (for first 100 community members), and receive access to the following:

Twice monthly online workshops, discussions & Q+A’s with Holy Eros + Guest Teachers on love, intimacy & relationships

• Free access to monthly meet-ups or gathering for members only for the first three months (Vancouver Area for 2024). We’ll be adding more in the coming weeks and months + events include meet & greets, communication trainings, intimacy skill building and more.

• Holy Eros Resource Library: Access videos, guides, tutorials and more on sexuality, relationships, and communication from the Holy Eros Institute and Guest Teachers.

• Community Portal: Connect with other members (locally + globally), share resources, receive support and who knows, create your own partner events + meet-ups.

  • For now, they’re centralized in British Columbia (here the founders live), however we will be adding more locations soon as we expand our Ambassador program.

  • We’ll offer two monthly workshops that are about 90 minutes each. You can participate live or watch the recording on your own time. Our member space will be a place to connect, ask questions, try out practices with partners, and more. You can choose to participate as much or as little as you’d like.

    We encourage new members to sign up for at least six months (though we require no formal commitment). Studies show it takes anywhere from six months to a few years to change our habits, so think of this as a commitment to yourself and your future partner(s).

  • Anything can happen!

    Part of your membership includes access to online and IRL community events. In the online workshops, you’ll get to meet people and see how they show up. If you want to make a connection with someone, you could perhaps reach out to practice tools from a workshop or attend the next Worshipper together.

    In the future, we have bigger plans for those who want more formal introductions. Stay tuned!

  • Intimacy is for everyone. Singles and partnered people both face challenges – some different, some quite similar. Our goal is to offer a broad range of skills and tools that will support everyone on their journey to love better. Whether you’re looking to improve communication, light some fire in the bedroom, or express your desires, you’ll find what you’re looking for here.

  • Holy Eros is a place to explore, imagine, and shape your desires. We support all forms of relationships, and offer ways for you to envision, try out, and learn from people who have experienced relationships in all styles.

  • We believe that love is love, and no matter how it shows up, it is sacred. We actively engage queer voices and celebrate the legacy of freer erotic expression that LGBTQ folks have championed for decades.

    We believe that every person holds a unique combination of masculine and feminine energies, and we ground our practices in the exploration of your desired inner/outer balance, as fluid or fixed as you feel it each day. Our only goal is for you to explore your path to intimacy so that you can live more authentically in the name of love.

  • It makes sense to have concerns about baring your heart in a group of new people, especially since we have no collective roadmap to feeling safer in our intimate expression.

    One of our values at the Holy Eros Institute is cultivating inner safety while pushing edges, which means that we encourage you to move at the pace of your nervous system while also pointing yourself in the direction you want to grow.

    Rather than get caught up in the shoulds/should nots of participating, move slowly, celebrate yourself at every step, and remember that everyone else is also learning to navigate these waters. Amazing things can happen when we explore together!

  • While we encourage you to treat Holy Eros like a gym membership (set a schedule, make the commitment to show up, remember to breathe), we get that schedules don’t always align. Every call will be recorded and accessible in our library as long as you maintain an active membership.

  • Of course! If you’ve gotten what you’re looking for, or just change your mind, canceling is easy. While we don't offer refunds for partial unused months in the membership, you can cancel at any time. You’ll find all the details about cancellation in our welcome message.

  • No. Since this is a subscription, your access to the recordings and live workshops is dependent on you having an active membership. Any PDFs or downloads you receive as part of your membership are yours to keep.

You desire expert insights into the world of intimacy. 

Learn from world-class speakers, sexuality educators, relationship coaches, and wellness professionals who will share their wisdom and guide you through transformative practices.

You’re looking for spaces to explore what you want from relationships, and how you want it. 

This is a space for you to explore your desires, boundaries, and vulnerabilities at the pace of your nervous system. How you show up is your choice – attend every single event live and be first to participate in every practice, or do it in goblin mode with the camera off in cozy pajamas – show up exactly as you desire.   

You’re craving authentic community connection 

No one is perfect in how we relate, but Healing Eros will draw people who are looking to do it better. Meet like-minded individuals, tap into the networks of skilled teachers, and become part of a community that values intimacy.

You want a holistic approach to healing your relationship with relationships. 

Our summit covers a range of topics around love. From the emotional and sensual to the mental and spiritual, Healing Eros will provide a comprehensive exploration of intimacy, and everything that gets in the way.

You desire an inclusive space to address your unique situations in love.

Our speakers, topics and themes are inclusive to a variety of relating styles (monogamous, non-monogamous, etc.) along with LGBTQIA+ inclusive, so you’ll find support in myriad ways.

IF YOU DESIRE A WORLD…

…where the power of love is seen as sacred

…where communication in dating is clear and honest

…where conflict becomes fuel for deeper connection

…the change starts with you.