STEP INTO A NEW ERA OF

LOVE, EROTICISM, CONFIDENCE, EMBODIMENT & HEART

with your guide in sacred sexuality, tantra and intimacy with — Phoenix Amara

You’ve found yourself here reading these words because you’re searching for the keys to the experience of your *raw, authentic heart, sacred sexuality and primal power*.

And you’ve come to the right place. An experienced Sexuality Guide, Muse and neo-Tantric Priestess, I’ve been helping people liberate their heart and body’s desires for over a decade through trainings, retreats and mentorships.

Allow me to be your muse into a world where your

soul + sex are the keys to your liberation…

I share the power of tantra, somatic therapy, breath work and ritual to facilitate heart opening and harnessing one’s sacred sexual life force energy through 1-1 mentorships, trainings, retreats, online courses or rare in-person ceremonies. You can read more about my training and experience below, along with testimonials from previous clients. To get started, read through the different pathways of this work below and book a free 15-connection call with me. On our call, I’ll listen to your unique needs and desires, provide some advice, support and resources, and I’ll share aligned ways I can support you in this work.

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What this work is about…

& who it’s for….

This is for the man who is looking to heal his relationship with the feminine, with his sexuality, and with his heart and power. To experience and know the healing between love + sexuality
Maybe you’re desiring to feel your Primal Raw Power as a man, let go of old beliefs that being masculine is “toxic”, overcome porn addiction, let go of negative beliefs about women, learn how to open your heart again, and heal the bridge between love + sex
You’re interested in learning about the interconnection between holistic sexuality, the body, heart & spirituality
You’re intrigued by Tantra, Embodiment Work, Archetypes, Rites of Passage work, Personal Growth, Plant Medicines, & Breathwork.
You’re ready to release toxic patterns, avoidance, or other negative beliefs about women, yourself or sexuality.
You’re ready to experience the beauty of the Divine Feminine & your inner Divine Masculine

What this work is not

This is not an exchange of requested sexual favours for money.

There is a rightful place for sex work, however, this is not that — this is integrative healing work that weaves in modalities such as ritual rites of passage, personal growth, sacred sexuality, bodywork, sensual expression, kink, tantra and healing of one’s heart.

I act as a mirror and representation of the Divine Feminine. While our session may weave in elements of sensuality — or practices derived from Daoist Tantra, Kink and other sexuality practices, there is no expectations of receiving specific sexual services in exchange for money.

Which is likely why you were drawn here. Because I am here to serve as a guide to help you open your heart & sex…to help you see your power, love, and parts you hide.

HOLIDAY SPECIALS

BOOK A SESSION WITH PHOENIX for 50%-70% off before Dec 30th.

Get your Experiences with Phoenix 50%-70% off when you reserve a session before Dec 30th 2024 to be scheduled between January - May 2025. These sessions can be tailored to couples or for solo participants.

HOW TO BOOK:

For New Clients: Schedule a 15-Min Free Consultation before Dec 30th.
After consult, you can send a 50% deposit to email sent to you for your session before Dec 30th to claim your discount rate along with booking your date with the booking link sent to your email and instructions.
For Returning Clients: You can simply send full payment or 50% deposit to holyerosinstitute@gmail.com to secure your date & time.

ONLINE INTRO SESSION TO SACRED SEXUALITY

Are you longing to feel more connected to your body, deepen your experience of pleasure, or reclaim a sense of intimacy with yourself or a partner? An Introductory Sacred Sexuality Session offers a safe, nurturing space to explore and heal the layers of your sensuality, intimacy, and erotic energy.

This session is perfect for you if you’re navigating: Feeling disconnected from your body or struggling to experience pleasure, Emotional or physical blocks around intimacy or sexual expression, A lack of confidence in communicating your desires and boundaries, Healing from past experiences that have created shame, fear, or discomfort around sexuality, or curiosity about exploring your sensual or erotic potential in a safe and supportive environment.

What to Expect: Through somatic (body-based) practices, breathwork, guided movement, and gentle exploration, we create a container for you to:

Release tension or shame held in the body and rediscover the pleasure of feeling fully alive.
Develop greater self-awareness and confidence in your desires, boundaries, and needs.
Learn somatic tools for cultivating intimacy with yourself and others, creating space for deeper connection and joy, like self-touch, neo-tantra breathwork for cycling sexual energy, or rewiring beliefs around your body, expression and desires.
Begin to heal old wounds and reclaim your authentic, sacred relationship with your sexual energy.

Each Zoom session is completely tailored to your needs, offering a compassionate and non-judgmental space to explore your unique journey. Whether you're taking the first step toward healing or looking to enhance your relationship with your sexuality, this is the perfect place to begin.

Duration: 90-min Session: 15 min Dropping in and connection chat to focus on one main area to work with | 15 min Grounding + Breathwork | 45 Min Practices | 15 min integration | Perfect for Solo or Couples

Investment: $300 $150 rate until Dec 30th. Please send deposit of $75 CAD to holyerosinstitute@gmail.com to receive your booking link. Remainder of payment can be sent within 24 hours of session. Upon sending deposit you’ll receive a welcome email with booking link to schedule your session in January.

K!NK: Discover the Art of Dominance and Surrender

SESSIONS CAN BE DONE IN PERSON (VANCOUVER) OR ONLINE

Step into an unforgettable journey of self-discovery and connection through the realms of Dominance and Surrender. Whether you’re curious about embracing your inner authority or longing to let go of control, this personalized session is designed to help you explore these powerful dynamics in a safe, playful, and deeply transformative way.

For the Bold and Confident (or Those Who Want to Be): Awaken your inner Dominance and tap into your natural authority, confidence, and magnetic presence. Through guided games and exercises, you’ll safely explore what it feels like to embody boldness and lead with intention—unlocking a part of yourself that’s both powerful and deeply satisfying.

For the Control Enthusiasts Who Need a Break:
If letting go feels like an impossible task, this is your chance to experience the profound beauty of surrender. Learn how to soften, trust, and release in ways that feel liberating—whether emotionally, physically, or mentally. Discover how submission can be a source of strength, not weakness, and how it opens doors to deeper connection and intimacy.

Experience:

Principles of Consent you’ll need in Safe & Consensual Kink Experiences including the Wheel of Consent
Explore fun games to illict your Primal Power, Anger, and Masculine Expression.
Learn easy ways to get into your Dominance or Submission
Play in some fun role-play experiences and learn how to use different tools, items, and implements to create a powerful experience

Investment: $900 $450 when Deposit received before Dec 30th.

Book a Free 15-Min Call to Book Session

Example Session: Where client wanted to experience Dominance. We went through some beautiful consent games based on the Wheel of Consent, Wamp up Games to explore dominance, and creating some scenes.

Example from a session of some warm-up games and practices to tap into your raw, primal expression and dominance expressed.

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THE KING’S CHAMBER

an in-person ceremony with Phoenix Amara

Experience the Art of Devotion + Receiving in a very special ceremony of surrender, dominance and exploration. This is the perfect experience if you’re new to the world of Neo-Tantra, Sacred Sexuality and Erotic Embodiment Work to experience the arts of devotional Worship through breathwork, embodiment work, conscious kink, and neo-tantra. Your ceremony will be co-created specifically for your unique needs in your complimentary 1-hour consultation call included in this package.

The Sacred Art of Receiving blends principles of Ritual, Neo-tantra, and Sacred Sexuality to guide you into deeper intimacy with yourself and your capacity to open, trust, and embrace abundance in all its forms. An example flow for a journey like this weaves:

✨ Grounding Breathwork and Intention Setting - to centre yourself and your energy

✨ Exploring the Areas of Devotion (how to offer) and Receiving (how to receive) through exploring the Wheel of Consent
✨ 5-Senses Ceremony: Including Giving & Receiving Devotional Massage, Blindfolded Sensation, and a sensual feeding ritual to tap into your inner sensual hedonist.
✨ Devotional Roleplay Rituals that invite reverence and celebration of your unique essence.
✨ Affirmations to nurture self-worth and acceptance.
✨ Somatic Practices to develop confidence in asking for what you want and need.

Whether you struggle with receiving love, asking for what you desire, or simply want to feel more connected to your body and soul, this session will leave you feeling nourished, empowered, and aligned with your innate worthiness. It’s time to say yes to yourself. Let’s make it sacred.

Includes venue rental in Vancouver BC, nibbles, and specialty items needed as well as 1 hour Intro Consult Call where we’ll discuss your desires, needs, boundaries, edges and wounds —to help inform the curation and design of your ritual experience.

4 HOUR CEREMONY + 1 hour Pre-Ceremony Consult Call Investment: $2500 $1111. To reserve holiday rate, book a free consult call. Sessions take place in 2025 Vancouver ~ with deposit required to reserve spot.

Book here to discuss in more detail

HERO’S QUEST

Mentor with Phoenix in a journey through the Archetypes to reclaim your Eros, Expression and Desires.

Lock in her 2024 rates and reserve one of four spots open for the first part of 2025. The Hero’s Quest is open to men, women or couples, and is a rare opportunity to receive 1-1 Guidance in rituals and sessions tailored to your unique wounds, desires and dreams. Review the details below and book a call before Dec 30th to lock in her 2024 rates.

HERO'S QUEST

Meet Your Guide

While I have a diversity of experience and trainings over the past decade, I also believe we are more than our credentials. However, training does matter and is important - so my professional bio would read something like this:

Phoenix Amara is an internationally recognized Prayerformance Ceremonialist, Writer, and Sacred Sexuality guide. Having mentored in esoteric studies and metaphysics since childhood, she pursued degrees in Visual Arts and Environmental Design, explored plant medicines, personal development modalities, and finally the erotic arts. For over a decade, she’s facilitated hundreds of ceremonies & journeys for clients, as well as mentoring thousands through her online and in-person trainings, retreats and events.

You can find her interviewing experts on the HOLY EROS PODCAST: exploring the intersection of Soul, Sex & Art. Her best-selling memoir, “Ascension of Gaia: The Resurrection of the Sacred Sexual Feminine”, documents her own healing path of connecting to her sexuality and earth-based wisdom. With training in somatic therapy, neo-tantra, sacred sexuality and performance art, you can discover the wild and wonderful experiences and coaching she offers through her website: www.phoenixamara.com

As the former founder of Awakened Woman Convergence (2016, 2017) she’s organized international retreats and conferences in destinations such as Bali & Arizona, performed and spoken on dozens on stages across North America such as DreamTalks, SoulPlay, Lucidity Festival, and Electric Love Festival and led retreats in sacred sites like the Pyramids in Egypt and Chichen Itza Pyramids. Currently enrolled in the Clinical Somatic Sexology Certification offered through Somatica Institute, her additional qualifications include DeArmouring Training with Nathan Marcuzzi, Somatic Embodiment Training Level 1, Authentic Relating Level 1, Non-Violent Communication Training, Personal Power Level 1 with Lori-Ann Demers, Red Lotus Tantra Certification with Olivia Jade, Usui Reiki Levels 1, 2 & 3, Diploma of Visual Arts, Bachelors of Environmental Design, and feminine leaderships trainings with Nisha Moodley, Emily Utter, 1 year Love Leadership Mentorship with Kamala Devi, Margie Pargie and others. Connect with her on IG.

EXAMPLES OF CLIENT EXPERIENCES

I’VE SUPPORTED

These are but a handful of case studies from people I’ve supported and helped over the past decade in love, sexuality and intimacy

¶ He still felt very adolescent in his embodiment in life - shy with women, afraid to express his desires and afraid to be a ‘toxic guy’. We worked on getting him tapped into fantasy, practicing semen retention, and exuding power from his balls (yes I said it). He transformed the way he saw himself, started taking up more space, setting higher standards for the women he would engage with, and actually feeling like the kind of man any woman would be lucky to have. He started feeling unfuckwithable, penetrative, and on purpose. His power even started expressing through his appearance, new clothing choices, how he spoke, and how we created his life.

¶ He was fresh out of a very devastating breakup + unsure of what to do with his life. He had left someone he deeply loved for no reason, and so we explored his fears of love, hidden shame + guilt he harboured from former relationships, and healed suicidal ideation that was appearing from ensuing depression. He made some major life moves post-coaching which included moving back to his home country to work on himself and his relationship with his parents.

¶ A man in a long-term marriage with no sexual relationship with his wife for 10+ years. He was seeking ways to rejuvenate intimacy, and together in our work we revealed his expectations and pressures for sex and worked on ways to build trust, communication & trust in his marriage - so as to rebuild meaningful connection. He took the steps to work on non-sexual intimacy and dissolve the tension, frustration and anger he felt through expressing care in other ways first.

¶ She was working on feeling comfortable in her body and releasing guilt + suppression of her sensuality. We worked on where she hid her desires (from herself + in relationships), and helped her release people-pleasing tendencies, connecting to her Wild Woman + unapologetic self, and rebuilding a deeper relationship to her oozing pleasure through neo-tantric practices.

• He was in a loving long-term marriage with his partner, but hiding a very prolific sex + porn addiction - which was contributing to his inner shame, guilt and lack of integrity. We worked on building his knowledge of Daoist practices to harness his sexual energy, expanding his knowledge of female pleasure & rituals he could practice with his partner, and we created a forgiveness ritual with his wife at the end of our time together, where he took ownership and apologized AND where she acknowledged her anger and expressed forgiveness and desire to move forward.

• She was someone who felt trapped in the paradox of either BEING EXPRESSED in her sexually but not being chosen in love -or- SACRIFICING her sexuality to suppress herself for a man in a relationship. We worked on connecting to and embodying her inner power, sexual desires, expression AND relationship needs - and dissolving the belief that it had to be one way or the other. She’s since met someone special and celebrated their one year wedding anniversary.

• He was a deeply logical person trapped in constraints placed on him by family & sought to explore love as well as freedom in his life choices. We worked on connecting him to his primordial archetypes (lover, warrior, alchemist & king), and claiming his power back from others. He stood up to his family’s expectations on him around love, and broke a major ancestral cycle. Major life changed happened for him including him leaving his unfulfilling career, travelling the world, and making better choices in love + relationships.

¶ She was in a long-term relationship with someone she loved, but also feeling held back in her sexual desire and expression. We worked on deepening trust with her body as well as letting go of sexual trauma with somatic practices so she could open to more trust in her voice, expression + life’s work.

• He was fresh out of a 10-year plus marriage that was unfulfilling emotionally & sexually, and was seeking to reconnect to himself and his power. Working with archetypal embodiment, neo-tantra practices, and rites of initiation, he remembered relationships COULD be fun and met someone he cultivated an adventurous and mutually fulfilling relationship with.

¶ She was in a loving + open relationship with her partner but also feeling not cherished and loved in her primary relationship. Together we explored her authentic desires for being provided for and adored, and where she was giving away her power to others. She claimed her power, took back control of her finances, stopped enabling her partner, and began exerting boundaries in her relationships and her life. She called in a love that was deeply nourishing and supportive.

• He was divorced and seeking to reconnect to love, yet was being suffocated by his deeply held resentment towards his ex + women in general. We explored his deeper desires around what a new vision of relationship would look like, and explored where he subconsciously used/didn’t appreciate women, and how he could deepen his devotion with his inner masc/feminine energy, to experience better fulfilling relationships. He also connected to his integrity and his bigger purposes and expression in the world. His energy shifted from being an energy that women didn’t trust (because he was holding lots of hidden expectations of women) to being clean in his energy and trustworthy.

A personal experience - client testimonial.

“When I first started the mentorship I was not very trusting. I feel like I always held back when sharing ie not telling the whole story and not really being honest with myself. I felt I was very timid about my sexuality, very unsure of myself, and not really knowing who I was.

I believed I was coming to learn how to be a more sexual person, more confident, more in control, and to be an overall better lover.

I learnt that I am enough and that sex is much more than an orgasm, and that there is way more connection in sex – way more pleasure in taking your time and that slow and soft is more. I feel like I’m a work in progress and I’m always moving forward. I didn’t realize how closed off I was and how much more open I am now. I was very defensive and not open to listening.

I didn’t handle the blocks very well, and I really just shut down and got defensive, once I was able to listen it all started to make sense – everything just started to flow, now I find I’m much more open to my instructors direction.

We had many amazing journeys, they were very powerful. I remember one with my feminine and my masculine my four year old parents in the garden, Amazing. At the last session I could not believe how much pleasure I could feel.

I feel I’m so much more open I’m calmer I feel so much connected to myself it’s like I understand myself more than I ever had before. I’m much more confident in myself, I feel I communicate with others better, sexually I feel like I’m a little smoother more comfortable and I know more about sex.

I feel now like I’m dancing in my own sexuality. I feel sexy not ugly, I feel lust and not shame, and I feel like I want more more more.

When I joined the mentorship I thought I was in tune with myself I thought I was grounded I thought I knew about sex. I thought I knew pleasure – BOY was I wrong. There was highs and lows – lots of stories it’s like I went to the bottom and you brought me back up you made me look at myself and it wasn’t easy for either of us but what a reward and it’s working every single day, I loved this mentorship.

When I started I felt shame and now I feel proud I’m stronger happier and I really feel free I’m dancing inside all the time. Thanks so much Amara you are a amazing person and I feel so grateful our paths crossed.”

– H.M, Summer 2019

Rebirth Ritual

Here’s a glimpse into a private ritual experience I curated for a client from San Francisco. This group experience was a ceremony we co-created towards the end of his work with me in the Hero’s Journey—a 6-month mentorship that included multiple weekends of working with me. You can find more details about the depth of working together in that mentorship here>>

EXPLORE THE HERO'S QUEST

YOUR TRIBUTE & CONTRIBUTION

After reading through this entire page if you feel ready to act on your desires -schedule a consult call with me here>> to dive deeper into your current needs/desires, explore possibilities and set intentions for our experience. All calls are confidential (and will help you feel less nervous). You’ll be emailed a confirmation of your free initial consult.

3. From there, we’ll set a date for your experience and you’ll be sent preparation guides and ideas to get ready for your initiation.

As a trained Tantrika & Ritualist who has spent the past decade studying and exploring this work intimately, your tribute is an investment into your growth, expanding your heart, healing the shame with your sexuality & growing into the Power of Your Masculine…

APPLY HERE

I’ve had the immense privilege of helping men in sacred rites of passage work where they’ve faced and overcome immense challenges spiritually, physically, emotionally, and mentally.

Examples of experience my previous sacred clients have been in when they first reached out to me. Names changed for privacy.

• Sam (read S.H Testimonial below) had been dealing with a painful breakup and soon after being cancelled in his local community. His ex had reached out to work with me at the same time he did (obviously their energy was still very much entwined). Sam had issues with committment and instead was hurting and discarding every woman he was involved with. Through our six months together, he did the clean-up integrity work, reaching out and apologizing to past lovers (and strangely also hearing apologies from old lovers). Towards the end of our mentorship, his depression was severe, and we moved through this energy through a plant medicine ceremony. Sam later moved back to his home country to do deep ancestral healing work with his family, moving into a new chapter of peace, forgiveness and also loving himself first.

• I had known “Zander” for almost a decade, and in our very limited contact - he couldn’t hold my gaze or barely speak to women. When he finally reached out to me to work together, he was also battling severe porn addiction, anxiety, and inability to feel emotion. After working together, Hank began to open up about his childhood sexual assault, open his heart to emotion, and begin the deep work of opening to love for himself and others. I’m so proud to say he is embodying his King Self, has prepared his heart for love and is strong in his self-worth, pride, and ability to hold space for women and lovers.

MORE CLIENT EXAMPLE SITUATIONS…

• (Read H.S. Testimonial below) When Hank came to me, he was a bit standoffish and doubtful if I would actually help him. Mistrusting, guarded and closed, Hank was coming with a lot of resentment that we discovered was coming from his marriage. Almost a decade of no sexual contact with his spouse, we uncovered his latent expectations he was putting on her that she ‘owed him sex’ without realizing there was instead trust and intimacy to first be built up. Our sessions focused on his healing work ancestrally, worked on his shame (which we explored through a BDSM session where he watched me satisfy myself while he was tied up), and then learning practices to build love and intimacy which weren’t goal orientated towards solely sex. Happy to share he’s built a new connection with his wife as well as a sovereign journey with his own sexual expression.

• Read T.S. Testimonial Below. Tim was very, very anxious and nervous around me (very attracted but also scared). After feeling ‘held hostage’ in a marriage with no sexual contact for almost 2 decades, he didn’t want to cheat on his wife but couldn’t see a way forward in their sexual connection. Some of the wounds we uncovered was how he was withholding finances in their marriage in exchange for sexual interaction, and also helping him heal his innate desires for sexual contact outside of his marriage. Some of our sessions included a duo tantrika session where he got to indulge in receiving pleasure, yoni and erotic massage basics where he could learn deeper intimacy tools for women’s pleasure, and coming into his sexual confidence. Happy to report he’s decided to stay in his marriage out of choice and not obligation for the time being, but is also exploring intimacy outside of his marriage (and communicating with his wife) through massage exchanges and other sensual interactions.

WHAT WE WILL EXPLORE TOGETHER:

ARCHETYPAL EXPLORATION

Explore the many facets of your being, expression and power through exploring the power of the Warrior, the sensuality of the Lover, the wisdom of the Magician, and the imbued power of the King.

SACRED SEXUAL HEALING WITH EROTIC ARTMAKING

Discover the power of your sacred sexual energy through evocative + transformative erotic art making practices.

AUTHENTIC INTIMACY:

Intimacy & the Art of Romance - with yourself & your beloved. Master the Art of Ejaculation Control, build stamina and experience Full Body Orgasm and Intrajaculation. Overcome porn addiction and become a Masterful lover in building sensual tension and energy for your partner, making them desire your every touch. Understanding how Trauma and the nervous system works in correlation to attachment styles, relating and intimacy.

RELATIONSHIP TOOLS:

Develop a deeper, lasting and more intimate bond with your partner (or future partner), and experience ecstatic states of soul lovemaking. Understand and master the art of seducing the feminine, learn about the elements of female arousal and truly the art of romancing the feminine heart.

UNLEASHING YOUR INNATE POWER: .

Overcome any hidden feelings of shame & guilt around your Primal side, and explore the work of embracing the shadow aspects of the masculine & feminine. We do this through working around your current + past relationships — cleaning up energy leaks and bringing you to the fullness of your power.

INNER ALCHEMY:

Sex magic - harnessing the power of your union for manifesting personal desires and intentions. Feel empowered in your confidence in intimate and romantic relationships and fully accept your Primal Sexual Energy.

SEXUAL SPIRITUAL PRACTICES:

Develop deep practices of communing with the Spirit World, including working with Sympathetic Magic, pagan nature rituals, and working with energy healing. Understand the power of applying your Erotic Blueprint, exploring power dynamics D/s, and the catharsis of BDSM.

personal reflections from past initiates…

“When I first came to this wonderful journey, I was tense with grief from the loss of a relationship. This resulted in experiences that I blindly stumbled into leaving me with guilt and shame about who I was in this world. It was something that has weighed heavy on me over the years and has proven destructive in relationships.

It was this knowing that a deepening in the relationship with myself and the necessity for some deep healing to occur that drove to me to work with Amara. Really, I did not know what to expect. On a superficial level there was the desire for gratification. There was also a deep yearning for a safe space. A safe space for me to cry, to come back to myself. A real need for a container within which I could crack open and let be whatever it was that needed to come out. I see that in my previous relationships, I had pushed myself into sexual experiences thinking that that was the way to find this container, to forcibly try to crack myself open.

It was good for me to see that I was open to throwing myself into this experience. For this, I will be eternally grateful for Amara and this program because she gave me the parameters, I needed in order to throw myself into this experience in a safe way enabling the self exploration and healing that my heart truly desired.

Whilst this structure is what I distanced myself from sometimes, even questioning why I was doing the program sometimes, I knew in my heart I was exactly where I needed to be. Amara’s unflinching dedication to the process is what helped me get to the end. I will never be able to say thank you enough for that, for it was at the end of this journey did I at last come in contact with the splinter within myself that has caused so much pain and hurt. That being my own sense unworthiness, my own shame and guilt for things I have done and the man I have been. The real depth of self loathing that I have tried to cover up and deny. To be loved and held through all of that coming out, has been a truly transformational experience. It was the stuff that I always believed would lead to me being hated and alone.

Coming out of all this, I have recognized the unwritten contract that I expected women to enter into by being intimate with me. That by throwing ourselves into an intimate union, I am asking her to take away my pain, to give me a place in this world, to give me a sense of purpose and value. And when she could not fulfill this impossible task, I would begin to feel my own insecurities and thus the inevitable pull away would happen. I do not want to continue this cycle of pain and regret anymore. So, for me moving forward, it is my intent to practice the being with myself that I mention. To continually practice recognizing my own value and finding of my own purpose and take these responsibilities off her so that she can simply shine.

It is a reorientation within myself that I know will require constant refinement, but I now at least feel like I have a starting point and compass in order for this to happen. I have desired a life of beauty, of love, of passion and joy. With the allowing of the pain and regret that I have always run away from, I see that my truest desires actually stand a chance of living in this life. I am so deeply grateful for this acknowledgement.

Watching how I do throw myself into experiences with the desire to learn and grow has given me a much deeper appreciation for who I am and my sense of personal value. For the first time an appreciation for the depth of love that I can carry for myself. Whilst nervous, I do have an excitement for what this can mean for my intimate relationships with myself and my love.

During my time, I have experienced the crushing humility that was needed for me to crack open my pain and grief to allow me to embrace and love myself. To come home to myself. It is an irony that is not lost on me to see that by avoiding my own pain and loss, trying to find something of sacredness within me I was actually running from myself. It is the taste of the sweetest nectar to believe I am encountering a whole new me based upon acceptance and love.

Before I embarked on this journey, I had reviewed my whole life as a step towards embracing all the parts of me I had tried to cut off. Now, having continued on that journey within this immersion, I only now feel like I am in a place ready to begin again! So, it is with some nervous joy I look to see what my next steps can be in this life, towards fulfilling my goals of living a heart-centered, love filled and passionate life. Of creating worth goals and striding into life.

I have so much love, admiration and gratitude for you, Phoenix Amara, for the container you held for me to experience myself in this deeper way. To give me a chance of owning my self and what I can bring to this world. For never failing to be there for me with love. I will be forever grateful. From the bottom of my heart thank you.”

– S.H, Fall 2019, Hero’s Quest Graduate

Former Initiate Love Notes

“Much love to you also and take care of yourself. Your positivity and passion are my abiding memories. That and your wonderfully rich voice as you intoned the breathing exercises and Tantric cantillations of my heart’s desires.” ~ M, 2014

You have really sparked the fire of interest and helped guide the direction for me. You seem to embody your truth and that is currently my goal.”

– E, 2019

“I want to start this letter with my first experience in person in your great space that you have created, I was pleasantly surprised and felt good energy in the room we occupied I was impressed first by your guide that you put together I can appreciate the effort that went into putting this together you defiantly showed professionalism and that impressed me. I am very serious about where I’m going and who I am becoming. And I embrace people like you Phoenix Amara who are offering amazing life lessons and experiences to those who are worthy.” – Z, 2019

READ LOVE NOTES FROM PAST CLIENTS:

“Before meeting with Amara I had previously dipped my toes into tantra, somatic and bodywork with a newly certified practitioner, and my experience was enlightening and life-changing.

**I wanted to explore this fascinating aspect of sexuality to new depths and through investigating what was available online I came across the Temple Arts – it sounded perfect for me!**
I believed that me finding this was meant to be. I envisioned a more intuitive experience I wanted to go deeper I had a craving to explore the hidden powerful sexuality inside me, a significant amount of fear was attached to my new understanding and path forward almost making me feel hesitant. But my potential goddess practitioner was just that a beautiful goddess woman that I found incredibly sexy, attractive and hot!
A phone call time was arranged and we connected you were nice to talk too, I felt comfortable I felt we had a good chat you were very professional. After our call we preceded to the next step, when I received the mentorship package I was very impressed with the outline. I felt like an amazing adventure was just before me, and I had been guided to you I love to learn and you Phoenix Amara were just the right person to teach me.

Personal experience continued…

“With very little father figure influence, I have noticed patterns in my life that I deny, like me a man with the nice boy ideology, mom always said “Be a good boy(man) and just be yourself and the girls will love you”. I see how this has made me a man that wants to please everyone, wants people to like him, doesn’t want to rock the boat and avoid all controversy and will lie manipulate and appear untrusting to most people he meets all while believing he is the most trusted person in the room. This entire experience with you has shown me that I am a man living with the lack of men in my life, in seeing that, my next step is to begin the work with men, I begin a 3 week journey with the mankind project.
I had become very spiritual prior to meeting Phoenix Amara and was ready to embrace more spiritual embodiment through this Temple Arts mentorship program.
***What was the most enlightening experience?*** Many things come to mind I loved learning that you are a mother, I loved the talk time we shared you have such a fire in your person this excites me, I enjoyed learning and participating in the intention and prayer ceremonies, it was fun and freeing to write down intentions and unwanted feelings that didn’t serve me and then burn the paper, this was very powerful and I would not have thought so before.
However, it seems that the most enlightening awareness has come to me weeks later I am happy I asked because I received the answers to my questions in the most unusual way it was right there, I almost didn’t see it! It was my heart that picked it up thank you! thank you heart.
Through the mentorship I felt I grew in my perception of what it takes for a women to feel safe to feel protected, to feel trust and ultimate love and how important these factors are to enable us as spiritual beings to engage in intimate practices, and how easy it is to take for granted. I saw how I have displayed myself in my life living shallow barely scratching the surface of the real me. Keeping myself covered in armour afraid to expose my emotions for fear of judgment so instead pretending to be the person that I think others want me to be, instead of just accepting the real me flaws and all, I think some of me was aware of and some not, since completing the temple and asking the questions: why is my perception so skewed? And what can I learn from this? Why do I see things so differently then others? And what is this gift? How can I be real with people and not offend people but empower them and myself in the process?
I am proud that I finished the mentorship as I took it very seriously. I wanted to learn as much as possible, and felt I may have come on to strong in the beginning but I was only trying to demonstrate my previous learnings and my ability to push forward expressing my feelings and desirers making me feel uncomfortable but feeling so necessary to experience. I learned how surrendering can be empowering that I had to surrender to get the most out of this program.”

We are conditioned to fight most of what we don’t intentionally want in our lives, and this creates a non-surrender environment preventing us from growing as we accept and surrender to our process enlightening us further then before.
My hero’s journey looks like this, when I began the temple journey I was confident but also nervous about the unfolding and whether or not we would bond to create the most amazing journey. I needed to embrace my understanding even though I wasn’t sure what that looked like. ***I faced myself in a most unimaginable way feeling conflict with your idea and the process of what was to come.*** It was through this work that I was able to finally see myself with clear lenses to see myself with no excuses, and to accept that I am the creator of me, the extension of myself toward others that to place no blame for unwanted life events has been my biggest accomplishment and transformation to date.
Grateful for the young powerful woman who has taught me more then I would have believed possible. Any man can learn valuable life lessons from a woman when his ego is hushed, and he uses two ears and his heart to listen.
So proud of you and your ability to engage in this work – the world thanks you and many others like you. With so much love surging through me, its hard to express with words what you mean to me everything I said to you from the beginning was real not exaggerated not fake but as real as I can be, thank you Amara for facilitating me on my journey. I am proud to tell you that I love you.”
– N.V, Summer 2019

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